Integrity is defined as:
1. firm adherence to a code of especially moral or artistic values [incorruptibility];
2. an unimpaired condition [soundness]; and
3. the quality or state of being complete or undivided [completeness].
Where do you stand or sit in your integrity when it comes to those around you? Do you make and keep promises? Do you make appointments and arrangements with others only to break them later? Do you reach out to those individuals to share why you couldn’t keep in touch, or do you just allow them to linger and lay on the side awaiting your arrival, looking for your call, or expecting your return email?
Your integrity is on display every day in the way you walk, drive, and ride your bike, even while sitting at your desk during the work day. When we tell others that we are going to do something, it is up to us to do our best to follow through and reach out to share the outcome of whatever that conversation should have been.
We have integrity when we fall on our knees looking to God to give us the desires of our hearts, our prayers answered, and the outcomes of our trials and tribulations. Integrity is a small word with a large meaning and definition.
Each day, I live with integrity, stepping out into the world that God has prepared for me. My expectations for others are the same. However, it is impossible for me to hold you accountable without acknowledging that I also fall short in my own integrity sometimes. All I can do is to reach out and have a dialogue with others about my shortcomings. When you try to force others to walk in your footsteps, speak , or even move like you, it is not impressive. It’s not really a good way to look at things, since everyone lives differently.
Our ability to live our lives with integrity — including the times we fall short — is a key ingredient in how we walk each day. Throughout your walk, keep your promises, appointments, and deadlines, and keep your expectations of others in mind. Even when we fall short, by walking with integrity, we allow others to see what it means for us and how they might experience it for themselves. We all make mistakes, and have the ability to share with others our true intentions and what is going on in our lives.
Be full of integrity as you step out your door today, rising to the occasion of your life. It is okay to say, “I am sorry.” It is alright to let someone else know that you made a mistake. We are not looking for anyone’s perfection. However, we are expecting good things to happen each and every day. Enjoy your day and always expect greatness from those around you. Be intentional! Until next time… PEACE!
cj is a poet, educator, motivational speaker, and inspirational writer who resides in Philadelphia. If you were moved by this piece, shoot cj a “like” or comment at: [email protected].
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